Dating And Doors

Has it been a while since you have been out on a date, or maybe you
haven't been able to get a second date after your first date fiasco,
this article is written as a refresher course into dating etiquette
and for your learning more about what your date might like.

Rule number one when you are on a first date is to always be you.
Don't try to portray yourself as someone you are not. If you put forth
a 'fake' personality, career, or even an untrue past, the future
between you and your date will be a doomed failure from the start. If
you are truly going to be honest in a relationship, you will be
together because you and the other have built a relationship based on
real facts, thoughts and ideas. False starts create doubts in a
relationship that are difficult if not impossible to overcome.

Another steadfast rule in the dating world is do not try to focus the
entire date about yourself and your world. Keep your date interested
in conversation about worldly happenings, local happenings or even by
asking them about themselves. Continual conversation brings about a
great date for the both of you. Focus on today without focusing on
where you will be tomorrow with this person; if the relationship is
meant to be it will happen naturally. This brings together the honesty
in the relationship through conversation. The sharing of real events,
thoughts and ideas in both of your lives is how a second date is
brought about because of the attraction to want to learn more about
the other person by spending more time with that person.

Combining the rules

Using the two major rules as discussed above and implementing small
special effects to your date will bring out the best in a budding
relationship while creating lasting memories for the two of you. These
'special effects' in a first date can be very small gestures of
kindness that

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